Important reminder that because virginity is a made-up construct, you are allowed to call yourself a virgin or not based on YOUR criteria for what defines virginity. If you have only had intercourse in the form of rape, you are allowed to still call yourself a virgin. If you have only had sex that didn’t involve P-in-V or penetration, you’re allowed to say you aren’t a virgin. You are allowed to define what virginity means to you, whether it’s your first sexual experience with a partner, first orgasm, first romantic connection, etc. You are allowed to treat virginity as a worthless term that doesn’t define you, or an important part of your personal identity. Your virginity (or lack thereof) is for YOU to define.